What it is this time... Well, the most common or say universal topic of debate... Guys and Girl... Or let's put it... Men v/s Women.
No.. no.. There is no gyan , no fights, no discussion about the weaker power.. Just the thoughts for recently I have had lot many incidents to share... Of course quiet an exciting ones too which can make upto huge gossips.. Only if I reveal names ;)... But, I m not gonna b a bitch (something I m famous for)... Hahahhaaaa :)
Okay.. So the experiences... Ah, lemme start with Females.. Ladies first, quiet a golden rule though don know who made it ;)
A friend of mine happens to be in an abusive relation... I am using this string word because I can't take the guy here to be human completely destroying a lady life but can't blame him completely for it is a two way highway... Where we have traffic (here I m referring to feelings) at both side. So, knowing everything and though being cheated she still bothers about the relation and still finds it hard to move on. But why?... Is the dependency really too much?.. But how can be anybody dependent on such relation by any means where you know you will never have a faithful support.
What is it that still ties the bond... Care?... Nah... Can't agree to it for I do not seem much of relevance to this word here. But then, if I judge (well, I must accept I m nobody to do it) feelings at both end... Can't help analysing that a female stand out to be an emotional fool and the guy a quiet manipulative dog. So, fool and a Dog.. Not a worthy combo .. Is it?
Second instance happens to be a quiet common we see (I guess females have few dark secrets which can always become a coffee table talk... ;)
So, this colleague of mine happened to be a quiet secretive lady where her life is complete secret to her man... Number of past boyfriends, sex life , few habits... And of course she has this very strong sentence to make... "No man have a heart to accept her girl the way she is... He may have any past and reputation but his lady should always be a clean material ... So, sell this to them and you will be the best they will have.." Hmmmm... Well, she has quiet an experience so can't contradict the statement for yes maybe for men girl friends n wives are two separate world .. So, she have enjoyed her life as a girlfriend n sold herself well as wife... Profit! Profit! Again who m I to judge a relation n a person but what do we call this deal here... A smart ass with a fool or shall I call guy coward... For she maybe right in her place that nobody have guts... So, when u do not have guts for the bitter truths u are always tricked with sweet lies... And yeah.. A smart ass can be called coward too by many... But, when somebody is in profit situation... You are the gainer what may it be ... Ouffff... :P
Two ladies n one coward and one dog... Nah... This time it is about two cowards here...
Guy meets a girl... (Not to forget they had their past, been all by themselves for quiet a time now...) Have a strange liking to an extent of been through an awesome acquaintance beyond being strangers or just friends... And still, no acceptance on relation.
Girl- too scared of commitment... Can't bear married life and bonding and bounding.. Like the guy but then no relation expected or accepted...
Guy- engaged.. Will get married soon... Engaged to a long time sweetheart... Still don wanna be in relation to sacrifice freedom but marriage has to happen for social obligations are always unbearable..
So.. A coward girl not ready to accept situation.. A coward guy committed but still not ready for commitment.. Life gives a strange combo sometimes...
I happened to watch Ugly Truth few days back where the concept has been simple... Girls think from brains n guys.. Aah u knw from where... So, where is the heart when two souls are in relation?
Maybe hearts are to RIP for trends seems to be quiet trendy now days... We actually do not want love as relations are simple calculations on profit n loss...
No risk, no loss, no profit... Just a lil enjoyment or... Take risk, enjoy life, don share and you will be a gainer...
Iiikkksss... Quiet a debatable topic... For can anybody come and claim the possession of love in relation...??... Anybody??...
Something reminding me of the recent release Delhi Belly here... Hahahhahaaaa =))
We don have complexities... We invite them... Crap!
Entire world is complex... We just need to overlook everything to RIP or bring the change till we RIP.. Change???... Man, what's happened to me now... Change for what... All three stories protagonist are quiet happy with the situations (barring lady of first though)... So, why to get bothered when trend seems to be of Love, Sex aur Dhokha darling ;)
Cheers!
Lots of Love! Anji
