When you have lot to share and more than that excitement to share. Words fails you.
Old technique... Try it. You meet an old friend/ex after a gap of years and then it is a complete pool of non-sense talks/activities/life you wanna discuss and what you end up saying is "hello.. Its been so long.. So, how are you?"... Complete making fool of the expression when it comes to word. Ahhh! Human, will I say.
Its quiet a pleasure sitting idle doing nothing , enjoying the winter afternoon sun and munching peanuts (will certainly admit that its also full of guilt when u have piled up work to be finished upstairs and irresponsible doing this during official hours... But, I m me !) So, being back to the afternoon enjoyment and current topic over the mind... Attachments! (Naaahhhh, not the heavy mails one but something related to emotions of being human)
Few days back somebody gave me free suggestion (paid I will never take, instead would consider mine in such circumstance) on being attached... Its not good for heart. But then I wonder how is it possible to not being attached when forget about humans, we get attached to small things of ours. I know , many would call it being materialistic or some maybe crazy but then, its a true fact.
Being a girl ( well, I knw we are born pschyos when it comes to attachment) I m attached to my fav pair of jeans.. Wearning over 10 yrs now (proudly I admit, it still fits me!) , my bed (I always feel guilty for not spending nights with it when I have to be on my move), my BB (almost my love), my silky (my strong girlie.. Though its just a metal machine mango ppl call car), my work station... I mean, we get so very attached to them. Ofcourse these non-living things do not make fuss like humans on emotions n love... But they do play vital roles in our life. Few will say that its the memory attached to them and not the things themselves... But then, same is in case of people... Isn't it?
Who remember the nasty beasts who made our life hell in school... We all have one of them who think that their existence is just to show how unimportant you are on planet earth... But, we all do remember our buddies with whom we shared lunch in lunch break (hmmmm... Never gotta chance to steal lunch ever... Quiet descent I was at school time).
So.. Crux is we really can't avoid attachments! And I personally feel that running away can't be solution either... Strange belief I have... Distance don make heart forget but fonder of the one for what we enjoy most is ofcourse time we spent, comfort and that funda we people call... "Compatibility"... Well, that's wit all our stuffs too which we take to belong to us... For Silky do not have power steering n quiet a muscle building activity it is to drive her (my frnds says when they lay their hands on her) but for me... She is a butter cube... Smooth and I enjoy her ride. Same is case for my BB... Hard for ppl to handle him.. But then, we both are use to each other... (A miracle will only make phone work post falling in toilet flush... Mine is still working good )... Hahahhaaaa...
Attachments do not hurt, it makes us realize the place of one in our life. And as I believe in funda of happiness... I prefer to always fight for it! Regrets, Boredom, loneless , peace... Can be saved for the old age.. Life is once!
Lots of Love!
Anji
Rockstar... 10th time I guess!
Why is it I have gone crazy for the movie?
Music no doubt is awesome and so is the story... But then, I guess its Jordon!
In beginning there is a line about right and wrong and then the story unfolds... Today watching again I was just wondering one thing... Dreams take a lot from you. Quiet obvious... Protagonist did it all for his dreams and desires and its not he came out to be a looser... He got it all.
A junior is getting married the next month or say 15 days... Happy to get a man for her life as like a lady she will spend the husband money and be happy about it... I always wonder, how can anybody be happy without being content? But then I heard this saying "anybody who says money can't buy happiness, do not know where to shop" (always wonder do this gentleman was really so happy that he found out the secret?) Only philosopher knows philosopher mind and I do not want to apply yet!
Anyways, maybe!... An acquaintance from past also let down his identity choosing money over happiness (married a lady not happy with but can't leave due to financial support he have from her)... No offence, no comments... I just wonder how can we be so weak that we can't fight for our own happiness and let our characters disappear under our weakness?
Jordon bravery made him the hero.. Rude he was but not to people he loved! Rich he was but contended only with 2 desires of life... A friend called him selfish but never did I found him once doing any selfish deed in story, his love was just about being together... If you belong to each other you have to be together, and that is only which should happen... Right or wrong! Can never judge this character but will always have a high thoughts whenever will discuss him.
Afterall it takes lot to be courageous and fight for what you believe is right and for what you love... :)
Lots of Love!
Anji
Marriages... Quiet a confusing topic!
Nope, its not like I m against it but few concept of this institution is completely head over heals for me.
Well, instead of being a complete bitch showing the indifferent side I would rather admit that once I did thought about it seriously myself. Not that I m always into the lovey-dovey side of the fancied relation (believe me, any day I am ready to bring up a family single handedly , simple reason I m more into kids than man.. Well its a separate topic for discussion other day. So, I will park it here in brackets).
Marriage seems to be the hottest topic now days , not that it is the marriage season but yup, I m entering the age. So, its like the moment u r 14th.. Or in 10th standard, career take over.. In india, moment u r over 25 marriages take over. Only topic amongst friends n family.
Recent conversation calculating the number of friends already admitted into the institution, number seeing and number who would be qualifying (of course it included few of us too , just not into marriages) , I actually realised that sitting in college canteen we actually had this discussion of life in 2012 n many of us did planned ourselves to be married . So, it was time to give in the reasons for not being one still.
A friend has completely decided not to do love marriage for having a bad experience in past but yes, for family he is completely on to the topic n our invitations soon are promised. A couple (of course both common friend) is just planning certain career settlement n moment this one part goes well they would be heading toward the path of glory. My best buddy is still not ready to settle, but never the less he is looking for the right partner. Another good friend planning to settle in year or two and of course, now when it came to me... CONFUSED!
Not that I have some hard feelings to it but I completely fail to understand... Marriage for what reason?
Company?... I love my own given any day and ofcourse I love my friends company more... Certainely, I can't marry them all at once ;)
Occupany?... My occupation does the job.. Don even let me take that time out with me.. How can I share with somebody else then?
Kids?... Referring to the initial lines... I am ready to raise one myself... Why to get into this entire business of expectations and commitments without will?
Society?.. I give it a damn.. Always :P
Family?.. Hmmm... I can think of marrying.. What so about divorce :/
Well, as I said... Quiet a confusing one... There is this hindi saying... "Marriages are like flour based bengal dumplings, people who do not eat it craves and people who does... Pufff"...
A dear friend of mine, being ditched in love have decided to marry as per parents choice as he can't risk it more... Do this saves him or solve the purpose for marriage?.. I doubt, for unless he befriend the best enemy, life gonna be tough ;)
Now, calling the other one enemy is …not due to sarcasm, I have grown up seeing one couple as one myself and no way I can ever frame them as best buddy in the same frame... Infact, I do not remember too when did they share the frame last...?.. Hahhaaaa, quiet a funny thing to imagine though.. Still :)
but, then coming to one of the cutest couple I have met recently.. No doubt, I am somewhere getting attracted to the dumplings myself. Not that I haven't seen peaceful and lovable couple before but yes seeing a couple missing each other n loving irrespective the other is enjoying life is the first time. And no doubt, this oompphh makes their relation special and attractive too.
Hmmm... Well, I can go on writting another hour as currently I have 10 recent experiences to share but then time is always a constraint for we telecom people trying hands at creativity.. So, gotta rush!
(And yes, I cannot continue the topic for next day or so because I have a very short span of interest level... I might get more excited on someother topic tomorrow n crave to give in thoughts there... "Free gyan" as I often say) ;)
Lots of Love!
Anji
