Nope, its not like I m against it but few concept of this institution is completely head over heals for me.
Well, instead of being a complete bitch showing the indifferent side I would rather admit that once I did thought about it seriously myself. Not that I m always into the lovey-dovey side of the fancied relation (believe me, any day I am ready to bring up a family single handedly , simple reason I m more into kids than man.. Well its a separate topic for discussion other day. So, I will park it here in brackets).
Marriage seems to be the hottest topic now days , not that it is the marriage season but yup, I m entering the age. So, its like the moment u r 14th.. Or in 10th standard, career take over.. In india, moment u r over 25 marriages take over. Only topic amongst friends n family.
Recent conversation calculating the number of friends already admitted into the institution, number seeing and number who would be qualifying (of course it included few of us too , just not into marriages) , I actually realised that sitting in college canteen we actually had this discussion of life in 2012 n many of us did planned ourselves to be married . So, it was time to give in the reasons for not being one still.
A friend has completely decided not to do love marriage for having a bad experience in past but yes, for family he is completely on to the topic n our invitations soon are promised. A couple (of course both common friend) is just planning certain career settlement n moment this one part goes well they would be heading toward the path of glory. My best buddy is still not ready to settle, but never the less he is looking for the right partner. Another good friend planning to settle in year or two and of course, now when it came to me... CONFUSED!
Not that I have some hard feelings to it but I completely fail to understand... Marriage for what reason?
Company?... I love my own given any day and ofcourse I love my friends company more... Certainely, I can't marry them all at once ;)
Occupany?... My occupation does the job.. Don even let me take that time out with me.. How can I share with somebody else then?
Kids?... Referring to the initial lines... I am ready to raise one myself... Why to get into this entire business of expectations and commitments without will?
Society?.. I give it a damn.. Always :P
Family?.. Hmmm... I can think of marrying.. What so about divorce :/
Well, as I said... Quiet a confusing one... There is this hindi saying... "Marriages are like flour based bengal dumplings, people who do not eat it craves and people who does... Pufff"...
A dear friend of mine, being ditched in love have decided to marry as per parents choice as he can't risk it more... Do this saves him or solve the purpose for marriage?.. I doubt, for unless he befriend the best enemy, life gonna be tough ;)
Now, calling the other one enemy is …not due to sarcasm, I have grown up seeing one couple as one myself and no way I can ever frame them as best buddy in the same frame... Infact, I do not remember too when did they share the frame last...?.. Hahhaaaa, quiet a funny thing to imagine though.. Still :)
but, then coming to one of the cutest couple I have met recently.. No doubt, I am somewhere getting attracted to the dumplings myself. Not that I haven't seen peaceful and lovable couple before but yes seeing a couple missing each other n loving irrespective the other is enjoying life is the first time. And no doubt, this oompphh makes their relation special and attractive too.
Hmmm... Well, I can go on writting another hour as currently I have 10 recent experiences to share but then time is always a constraint for we telecom people trying hands at creativity.. So, gotta rush!
(And yes, I cannot continue the topic for next day or so because I have a very short span of interest level... I might get more excited on someother topic tomorrow n crave to give in thoughts there... "Free gyan" as I often say) ;)
Lots of Love! Anji
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