“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.”
Only thing it made me ponder upon is this really that easy? If u accept pain, people tends to treat you with pity. As if, going through pain is the most cursed life being bestowed to you. But, then I guess even the strongest and happiest people around have their own stories. It maybe just the width and depth that differs but we all have been given our shares!
Some days back I just came in touch with the gentleman who have lectured me on possibilities of my life filled with misery and sorrow for the straight front I put up. Being called an "open book" was taken as an offense for me portraying myself being a public property just because getting used to some downfall in relationships. But, instantly my question was "is it bad to be straight forward?" And then, if people are not able to accept others with their reality problem is their why should they even except the others to change?
One of my ex had been all regret ful about the relationship we had shared for he takes it to be his complete mistake that on the time and investment given onto the relation as a friend, he thought of taking it to new level. I always wonder why these kinds of corporate morons even fall in relationship, they do not even deserve to be accompanied! A person, talking about levels of relationship depending on time and investments done have no value for the care and love being put into relationship and not even the pain somebody would have gone through keeping their smiles on inspite their continuous fights with own world. Completely agree with the writer of the quote "being strong sucks!" For world is filled with people who only let their burden fall for the stronger one to handle the battles alone.
I always wonder and believe that God have his strange way of communication with us , for he is the only one who never leaves us in our toughest time and beside all strength he provide us to sail through the pain he also ensures to get back our spirits back to us. And one thing I realized communicating to him is that "love is through pain"... If you have not taken pains for people you love, you have not given them enough.
That's what Jesus have done or Lord Rama or Almighty Shiva... This is what our parents does for ue everyday, or the wives taking care of all roles and being the "super- woman" of home, our teachers, loved ones.. They take the pain... For us!
So, its okay to be in pain sometimes, cry our hearts, share and show our emotions and accept our weakness, fight and complain.. but never should be forget that beyond the pain... We will always find love!
And we will realize once in a lifetime with true heart n soul shared without putting the corporate calculations that..
Pain fades with time ... But Love blossoms.
Lots of Love! Anji
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