Biggest Pain-Being Helpless!

Recently I came across this discussion about the biggest Pain of Life and as usual maximum votes went to 'BROKEN HEART'. There were few good quotes to add in to the discussion and the majority of voters... one was "Broken heart is like having broken ribs, from outside everything seems normal but it pains every time we breathe." A good quote I must say!

But, my only question to all the broken hearts is that have they ever tried to feel the pain of being helpless. A pain when you cannot feed your family knowing they are only dependent on you. A pain of loosing one of your body part or being physically handicapped and finding that you are totally dependent on somebody and what happens when that somebody is with you only feeling pity for you. A pain of having all the courage to fight the world and bring changes but then people you trust, believe , Love... Leaves you. Pain when you know that the person on the other side of table is your whole world but still you cannot do anything for them just because you do not that right anymore... Right to wipe their tears, embrace them in your arms, hold them tight the way you always use to do. Pain of hurting someone so badly and knowing that at first place you never wanted to do that and now you are too helpless to even ask for sorry.

I guess, Being Helpless is the biggest pain one can go through because somewhere the feeling of knowing that you can set things right but still not able to do even after all efforts you have put in or you are just not allowed by circumstances to change it, it burns you from inside.

I am not trying to say that it is easy to live with Broken heart or after loosing your loved ones... But, from the two we can always move on. Love heals all.

You have been left or somebody broke your heart can always be mended for someday somebody will come ready to give you all love you deserve.Yes, you just have to give in sometime to the relation and reciprocate the love you get from someone. It maybe possible that we are not able to get over with the past memory but yes, we will be able to move on more easily and with time we will see that replacement happened for good.

With the loss of our loved ones, we as human should be proud on a fact that neither we can remorse, grieve or sulk for much time. Love plays the magical healing ointment everywhere. The memories of the loved ones and the time spent with them will make you smile always and yes, maybe with a sigh for not having them around anymore we can always move on.

So, i just wish to all that never in your life you have to come across a phase where you feel being helpless.

Lots of Love!Anji