we all know that best way to health is happiness and way to happiness is friendship. Yes, friendship. Do any of us tell me one moment of life when we were unhappy with friends?
No! at least I do not remember any. I have always felt complete with them. But, article was more about having a lady as friend. Now, I am not being gender biased here. It is just about a study I agree with completely. It said, that when we are friends with guys... best we share is our drinks, smoke, secret and talks about general world but not our emotions... An old movie we all heard about "boys don't cry"... but, we all need a mate to share this part of ours and that study showed and proved that girls are best mate to share our hearts, emotions for when we get into any relation we give our souls to it.
Now, again I am not being a praise hungry woman holding the flag for the womanhood... Best example to prove this point of the doctor i can relate is our mothers. Whatever or who ever we are we are accepted completely by them and given always the best by her... though she never gets anything in return for what she is worthy of.
sisters... another angels on earth... when, two sisters or when a guy have a sister ... we can share our entire world with her... always... our first BF, a new lovely dress, our dates, our bad habits, our bad mood, our new girlfriend, latest crush... anything and that too with so much of ease irrespective of our age differences but then this level of comfort is not with the bros... No offenses to anybody but yeah... we are never so open to them... our friends become are better secret keepers instead here...
Our female friends... man, they are so caring... I have one... very close to my heart... Vijaylaxmi and we call her Amma out of love... she is full of love, care... never in my life there has been a time when I couldn't share something and maybe my bad emotions with her (well, sometimes I don't... for she is too very emotional). and, yes I have my guys friend too the strong and emotional hulks but they never understand life from my perspective, becomes judgmental and just too strong to let the emotions flow... And, when it comes to friend... I am too is one of the best my friends have for that is the constant compliment i have got from them and of course I have never disappointed them on this... and, not to remind... but I am a Girl too... :)
so, healthy heart guaranteed ;)
Anyways... the crux to entire theory is only that we as humans can always open are hearts best with ladies for they are blessed with sensitivity, patience, love, understanding and power to heal.
There are times when we come completely lost back home due to the hardship of the day we have faced and we get these women there always with a cup of tea and telling us that how happy they are to have us back after a long tough day and now it is our time to relax.
We know, when to let down our hairs and party, when to tie them back and be at your service with love, how to enjoy life by giving and not asking for anything in return... we know when to love you a lot to make your day shine and when to just give you a little kiss on forehead and express that you are important... when to scold you and show you the path which will take you to life and when to tightly hold your arms and ask to to just stay beside and safe.
So.. well, I am proud to be a girl and I happy about the fact that we care... a lot and from our souls :)
Lots of Love! Anji
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